ok, sweetie, the best thing is to talk to her. Be yourself. Just be there. Honestly, most guys relize not the importance of a guy just showing up for something they have talked about. It really makes a difference between chating via text or aim and talking in person. Also, be yourself. It would be worth not the trouble to lie and keep it up. It can only hurt you. I am sure u shall find someone. You may just have to waite a little bit. I hope that helped.
Ds, twas the oddest way I have ever heard someone say such. Great job.

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